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		<title>Comment on Diary of a Man: Nothing’s too lurid for the New Age by Diary of a Man | a bit of bonhomie</title>
		<link>http://feeds.bonhom.ie/~r/bonhomiecomments/~3/7JrX-wkeJec/comment-page-1</link>
		<dc:creator>Diary of a Man | a bit of bonhomie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Dec 2009 10:53:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://81.17.252.110/~dermod/2005/08/diary-of-a-man-nothings-too-lurid-for-the-new-age.html#comment-1316</guid>
		<description>[...] a reading of one of the pieces in the [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] a reading of one of the pieces in the [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Bootboy: Plausibly social networking by Dermod</title>
		<link>http://feeds.bonhom.ie/~r/bonhomiecomments/~3/gmSNWLpmQVk/comment-page-1</link>
		<dc:creator>Dermod</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Nov 2009 20:25:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://bonhom.ie/?p=581#comment-1314</guid>
		<description>Go see &lt;a href="http://weliveinpublicthemovie.com" rel="nofollow"&gt;We Live in Public&lt;a/&gt; if you want to see a hugely important film about internet alienation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Go see <a href="http://weliveinpublicthemovie.com" rel="nofollow">We Live in Public<a /> if you want to see a hugely important film about internet alienation.</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on Bootboy: Intersex by ronirokit</title>
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		<dc:creator>ronirokit</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Sep 2009 22:04:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice to read you again Dermod, hope you'll continue posting when possible.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice to read you again Dermod, hope you&#8217;ll continue posting when possible.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Bootboy: Intersex by Neil</title>
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		<dc:creator>Neil</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Sep 2009 15:10:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>*applause*

Delighted to see you posting the bootboy pieces again.  Also delighted to see someone writing about intersex - such a ridiculously taboo topic in many circles.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>*applause*</p>
<p>Delighted to see you posting the bootboy pieces again.  Also delighted to see someone writing about intersex &#8211; such a ridiculously taboo topic in many circles.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Older gay men by Cathy Casey</title>
		<link>http://feeds.bonhom.ie/~r/bonhomiecomments/~3/ZwsD-WznJtc/comment-page-1</link>
		<dc:creator>Cathy Casey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 06:23:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://bonhom.ie/?p=535#comment-1288</guid>
		<description>Definitely in response to Joeseph Blogger who FEARS to remain anonymous: When one resorts to name calling, they are putting forth the BULLY within because DEEP INSIDE, they are AFRAID.

Life is full of HARSH REALITIES, including those called MISconceptions. The word PEDOPHILE is defined as 'child love'. Just because some young person had a first kiss from a man, and chose to to tell a documentarian about it, then was brave enough to share the rest of his experience, does not categorize him or his male lover as a Pedophile. If one is too inhibited to view such stories without being biased, and is unable to walk a mile in another mans shoes for a few minutes without hurling insults, then he better begin to look DEEP WITHIN to see why the BULLY WITHIN is crying out so LOUDLY.

BEWARE: "You teach best what you most need to learn." Richard Bach</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Definitely in response to Joeseph Blogger who FEARS to remain anonymous: When one resorts to name calling, they are putting forth the BULLY within because DEEP INSIDE, they are AFRAID.</p>
<p>Life is full of HARSH REALITIES, including those called MISconceptions. The word PEDOPHILE is defined as &#8216;child love&#8217;. Just because some young person had a first kiss from a man, and chose to to tell a documentarian about it, then was brave enough to share the rest of his experience, does not categorize him or his male lover as a Pedophile. If one is too inhibited to view such stories without being biased, and is unable to walk a mile in another mans shoes for a few minutes without hurling insults, then he better begin to look DEEP WITHIN to see why the BULLY WITHIN is crying out so LOUDLY.</p>
<p>BEWARE: &#8220;You teach best what you most need to learn.&#8221; Richard Bach</p>
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		<title>Comment on Older gay men by Lisa Coen</title>
		<link>http://feeds.bonhom.ie/~r/bonhomiecomments/~3/M7cDF1eVwwI/comment-page-1</link>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Coen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2009 22:30:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://bonhom.ie/?p=535#comment-1287</guid>
		<description>A. "Appropriateness" is an interesting turn of phrase to use here, you imply that a part of the story should be excised because it is shocking to you, surely editing the shocking things out of documentaries misses the point? Would you apply this to all documentaries?

B. Calm down, we are all entitled to our opinions, and this is not a clear-cut case.

C. It is fair to challenge the anonymous views of the inexplicably livid.

Cheer up Joe!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A. &#8220;Appropriateness&#8221; is an interesting turn of phrase to use here, you imply that a part of the story should be excised because it is shocking to you, surely editing the shocking things out of documentaries misses the point? Would you apply this to all documentaries?</p>
<p>B. Calm down, we are all entitled to our opinions, and this is not a clear-cut case.</p>
<p>C. It is fair to challenge the anonymous views of the inexplicably livid.</p>
<p>Cheer up Joe!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Older gay men by Joeseph bloggs</title>
		<link>http://feeds.bonhom.ie/~r/bonhomiecomments/~3/_T047Rkylwg/comment-page-1</link>
		<dc:creator>Joeseph bloggs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2009 20:41:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://bonhom.ie/?p=535#comment-1286</guid>
		<description>A. Once again, you side stepped the appropriateness argument with pretentious shit about loving the truth and other nonsence such as how Tony is proud to share his pedophilia story and other such fuckwittery.

B. How naive and retarded can you be? Anyone can see that Cathal is a fucking pedo. Thanks for embarrassing the community with your weak apologetics.

C. If you were as confident on these issues I believe you are, I find it strange that you'd need to investigate whether I use a phone, or a computer, or whether I use broadband (notwithstanding the fact that an IP address/device does not necessarily equal a user). Considering your defence of Cathal and Tony's remarks, I'm not surprised you're such a deviant and sick person. Self hating gays like yourself, who whether conscioously or not, sabotage the community should be shot for their regrssive mindset.  If you weren't such a pompous little pseudointellectual hack writer, you'd see that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A. Once again, you side stepped the appropriateness argument with pretentious shit about loving the truth and other nonsence such as how Tony is proud to share his pedophilia story and other such fuckwittery.</p>
<p>B. How naive and retarded can you be? Anyone can see that Cathal is a fucking pedo. Thanks for embarrassing the community with your weak apologetics.</p>
<p>C. If you were as confident on these issues I believe you are, I find it strange that you&#8217;d need to investigate whether I use a phone, or a computer, or whether I use broadband (notwithstanding the fact that an IP address/device does not necessarily equal a user). Considering your defence of Cathal and Tony&#8217;s remarks, I&#8217;m not surprised you&#8217;re such a deviant and sick person. Self hating gays like yourself, who whether conscioously or not, sabotage the community should be shot for their regrssive mindset.  If you weren&#8217;t such a pompous little pseudointellectual hack writer, you&#8217;d see that.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Older gay men by Dermod</title>
		<link>http://feeds.bonhom.ie/~r/bonhomiecomments/~3/bXtM4jyZnyc/comment-page-1</link>
		<dc:creator>Dermod</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2009 19:01:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://bonhom.ie/?p=535#comment-1285</guid>
		<description>Fail? 

You've followed this blog on your computer on broadband, and on your mobile phone, and yet you say you don't have an email address? Forgive me if that's hard to believe, or if I suggest that your arguments are lacking credibility as a result. 

I'm just interested in the truth of people's lives. I've not been dishonest, nor has Tony, (nor indeed has Cathal Ó Searcaigh, I believe, after meeting him for that one interview.) 

Loving truth is not the same as hating a particular community. Indeed, how can you not love a particular community without accepting and respecting people's truth? 

So, your truth please, if you wish to continue dripping shame and embarrassment all around you. Who you are, and why you feel it's OK to snipe and sneer anonymously instead of coming out and standing over your insinuations. 

Have you something to be ashamed of? I don't, and neither does Tony. It's his life, his experience, and he's made his peace with himself.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Fail? </p>
<p>You&#8217;ve followed this blog on your computer on broadband, and on your mobile phone, and yet you say you don&#8217;t have an email address? Forgive me if that&#8217;s hard to believe, or if I suggest that your arguments are lacking credibility as a result. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m just interested in the truth of people&#8217;s lives. I&#8217;ve not been dishonest, nor has Tony, (nor indeed has Cathal Ó Searcaigh, I believe, after meeting him for that one interview.) </p>
<p>Loving truth is not the same as hating a particular community. Indeed, how can you not love a particular community without accepting and respecting people&#8217;s truth? </p>
<p>So, your truth please, if you wish to continue dripping shame and embarrassment all around you. Who you are, and why you feel it&#8217;s OK to snipe and sneer anonymously instead of coming out and standing over your insinuations. </p>
<p>Have you something to be ashamed of? I don&#8217;t, and neither does Tony. It&#8217;s his life, his experience, and he&#8217;s made his peace with himself.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Older gay men by Joeseph bloggs</title>
		<link>http://feeds.bonhom.ie/~r/bonhomiecomments/~3/OxNPDowkpVw/comment-page-1</link>
		<dc:creator>Joeseph bloggs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2009 18:24:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Fail.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Fail.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Older gay men by Dermod</title>
		<link>http://feeds.bonhom.ie/~r/bonhomiecomments/~3/owLz4pRuEt8/comment-page-1</link>
		<dc:creator>Dermod</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2009 08:11:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Come out, come out, whoever you are. Name yourself please, I've had enough of this anonymous silliness.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Come out, come out, whoever you are. Name yourself please, I&#8217;ve had enough of this anonymous silliness.</p>
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